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It is a practice in which the husband, boyfriend or male partner is knowingly being cheated on. The man being cheated on is called the cuckold or cuck, while the person doing the cheating is called the cuckoldress.
Although all the participants are likely to have a great time, the cuckold is the one who gains the most psychological pleasure during this whole process. Whether the cuckold is witnessing the adulterous activity firsthand, or whether he is simply acknowledging the fact that it is taking place elsewhere, the cuckold dotes on the humiliation of it all.
Cuckoldry is way more common in heterosexual couples due to the reversal of the outdated and traditional power dynamic between men and women. If we think about patriarchy or any other ideology that places the man above the woman for that matter, cuckoldry completely destroys this concept.
Other terms exist when referring to cuckoldry within different gender dynamics. For example, a cuckquean is the gender-opposite of a cuckold. For many, the excitement stems from simply knowing that this affair is taking place. Cuckold dynamic cuck may or may not be present during the act. If they are, they do not participate and may only pleasure themselves if cuckold dynamic are given permission by their cuckoldress. If the cuck is not present, they may help out with cuckold dynamic in preparation for the sexual encounter. Being an etymology enthusiast, the first time I heard this word, I initially thought it meant that the wife had a hold of her husband by the… cock.
Both literally and figuratively. In other words, the female was the more dominant one in both the bedroom and in their everyday life. You might be wondering why and with good reason and how is this sex practice relatable to a bird. Just like the little cuckoo bird that lays her eggs in the nest of another, the adulterer lays his seed in the bed of another.
The word is believed to have made its first appearance in the English language in a 13th-century medieval poem called The Owl and the Nightingale by an unknown author. The word has then been used more famously in the works of Shakespeare and Chaucer, with both of their works having to do with a man having an unfaithful wife.
However, in these stories, the husband does not know about the adultery that is happening so vigorously right under his nose. The authors purposefully make the man relatable to that of a fool. He becomes degraded by his wife without even knowing it. In a time such as the middle ages, a time where women were treated as subordinate to their husbands, having the female protagonist get away with adultery was a bold literary move. With cuckoldry, it is interesting to analyze its origins and uses throughout history. This is because it helps us modern folk in demystifying the psychology behind it.
One theory can be linked to the aforementioned dilapidation of the traditional power dynamic between men and women. Males who wish to be dominated by their female companions are not at all out of the ordinary. In fact, male submission aka femdom is quite common amongst heterosexual men. One reason as to why some men enjoy this degradation so much is ironically linked to their own control. For example, if a man or his ego were to be humiliated outside of this controlled sexual context, he most likely would be left devastated, hurt, and vulnerable.
This fear of being humiliated and letting your emotions take over may be so intense that it transforms into erotic desire.
As we all know there is a fine line between pain and pleasure. Whether the pain is physical or psychological, both pain and pleasure originate from neurons found in the same locations of the brain. In a cuckold dynamic, the man has complete control of his fear of being humiliated.
He is initiating it rather than submitting to it. This psychological phenomenon is true even outside of the sexual context. A study once showed that the biggest horror movie enthusiasts often suffer from generalized anxiety disorder GAD! This is cuckold dynamic the frightful nature of horror movies is being controlled by the viewer and their remote which in turn calms them down. They are, in a way, conquering and overpowering fear itself or the anxiety they may experience throughout their every day via controlling an otherwise scary situation.
Cuckoldry lends itself more to that of a relationship dynamic, rather than a kink. This holds true in that you cannot really practice this fetish on a first meeting over a one-night stand unless roleplaying is involved. The kink is played out in both monogamous and poly relationships. But what is appealing about this kink if one were to be in a monogamous couple?
Most monogamists live in perpetual fear of being cheated on.
For many, simply knowing that their partner is cheating is heartbreaking enough, let alone watching them get it on in the act! This practice may sound unfathomable to most serial monogamists, but as usual, there is much more psychological depth behind this fetish than meets the eye. As ly mentioned, the pain a cuckold experiences is entirely psychological. Arguably, emotional pain hurts way more than physical pain. When we think of BDSM, a common association is to that of whips and paddles, but for some BDSM kinksters such as cuckolds, the psychological and emotional pain is what drives them to cuckold dynamic utmost pleasure peak!
It is fully possible to practice cuckoldry simultaneously with monogamy. However, it may be a bit stricter on the rules and constant reassurance must be maintained in order for the practice to be perfected. Cuckoldry being such a contradiction to monogamy may sound bizarre, but it is perfectly capable of occurring in a healthy relationship. Within poly dynamics, the hurdle of accepting that your partner has sexual or romantic relations with cuckold dynamic people has probably already been addressed and dealt with.
Being a poly cuckold may also seem like a contradiction when you think of it. In some cases, cuckold dynamic is more of a roleplaying scenario for the couple. But in other instances, the poly couple may have some of their already established rules broken in order to make it feel more realistic and painful. As long as everyone involved consents without any form of coercion, and the end result ends up being pleasurable for everyone involved, cuckoldry is one of the more innocent kinks out there! So if this is something you and your partner would enjoy, definitely go out there and get your cuck on!
Stories See All. Guides See All. Now Week Month. What the Cuck? Quirky Etymology Being an etymology enthusiast, the first time I heard this word, I initially thought it meant that the wife had a hold of her husband by the… cock. While this, in a sense, holds true, the word actually originates from the cuckoo bird. History and Use of the Word The word is believed to have made its first appearance in the English language in a 13th-century medieval poem called The Owl and the Nightingale by an unknown author.
A Sexy Oxymoron With cuckoldry, it is interesting to analyze its origins and uses throughout history. Cuckoldry in Monogamy Cuckoldry lends itself more to that of a relationship dynamic, rather than a kink. Hit me right in the feels, baby! Cuckoldry in Poly Relationships Within poly dynamics, the hurdle of accepting that your partner has sexual or romantic relations with other people has probably already been addressed and dealt with. Compersion Another reason why cuckoldry may be so appealing to some couples is because of compersion. Type to search or hit ESC to close.
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